What do men look for in a woman?

Well, mabe here is a big difference on how men and women think (or at least, on how you and me think):

My ex are (and will always be) part of my life, they shaped me with their love while it worked, and they hurt me with their attacks in the times it didn´t work, still, that is my history, and nobody I ever loved will be negated this part of my life´s history that she formed nor that part of forming me as person and character just because it is not love anymore what I feel for her, or because I feel neutral or even to the extreme, because I feel lack of respect.

This has never anything to do with my present feelings or relationships, only as far as it is part of my history, personally I have no problem hearing about my antecessors with any lady.

I am practical in this respect: If he was better, she would be with him, not with me, the rest is Q.E.D...

Different takes, I guess.

Rattler

EDIT P.S. (and as afterthought some hours later): I have learned over the years to check out my loves also in the respect how they went of their exes: Di they leave me for him, I knew I would be left for someone else in the future the same way; did they stick to him like glued, I knew my next rival would have the same problem when trying to wrench her from me; did they firght thier ex to death, with lawyers, jusdges, denouncing and being traitors, well: Off we walked, and quickly, always the other direction!; did they cherish their ex and treat him as friend, how comforting: I would end up along the same line and not in a deadly life/death quarrell about kids, money and accusations... Interesting, no?

R.

Sorry, sky, but that just qualifies for a one/two/three nighter... (no offense meant, of cause, we men also only qualify on that level for the same  )

A woman  must (at least for me, to qualify for something more) have the ability to make you feel at home when you are with her (and, I agree, there might be different definitions on how this might be achieved, e.g. in Germany we say: "Love goes through the stomach", so cooking well helps from our POV, others might still have other ideas).

Also, NOTE, I edited my above post after your post.

Rattler

Maybe it would be an idea to double check (and even think about revisiting) your preying scheme, then?

Rattler

WHAT DO A MAN LOOK FOR A WOMAN?? LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

It depends on the woman. There are women you can look for a thing or other depending the moment, the situation, the needs, and the man. So this is just like talking about gender of angels.

Perfect woman is like this http://www.filofiel.com/tienda/images/MULTIUSOS.jpg exactly the same that they hope from a man.

Extreme utility for everything depending of what you need in any moment. 

I have to agree with Sky in some ways.   I think men are very visual and an attractive woman will always win over an unattractive one.  Truth is, for men, looks matter as much as, (if not more than), intelligence, education, or even wealth.  If this wasn't the case why do so many influential men marry air-heads?

But I think Sky and I have an advantage over most women because we have it all      The looks, the intelligence etc.   

As for what I look for in a man:  a sense of humor (very important).  I can't resist an intelligent man, air-heads bore me to tears, no matter how good looking. Compassion and passion for life, kindness.  I think it's the same for most women?

And then of course, there has to be chemistry. 

Now that should be easy to find.....          

I'm with ya on this one girl ......and yes, we do have a great package going on here, If I might add lol.....hugs!

 

I was just kidding FACman.  I'm well aware of your total devotion to Mary.    Lucky Mary. 

I agree with that,  Rattler.  People don't really change,  hardly ever in fact. If  a man or woman cheats than than they will always do it.  If he or she leaves someone for you, then they will probably do the same to you etc.   very true.

Wise words, Solideo! 

Rattler

true, my wife and I met by phone and we talked for about 3hours while I was driving towards Paris.

that phonecall was so 'new' for the both us that it 'clicked', we never saw eachother before but we knew that we never wanted to loose eachother again...

there were obstacles as she being 11 years older, not capable anymore in giving me children and my mental state at that time so we were friends for some months before we became a couple...

the looks were not important, I'm not saying that my wife is a donkey....well, I hope you get the point...

I was always CRAZY about women, and still am, their curves, skin, voice, hair and more and my wife certainly doesn't match my criteria but....she's the one for me