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« Reply #20 on: 27 November 2009, 02:06:52 »
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Men really do confuse me, Sky.  I try and figure out what they could be thinking, but who really knows?

Infact, that's probably true of women too.  I've always been very open with my feelings, but no everyone is.  I hate that.  I like to know where I stand.
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« Reply #21 on: 27 November 2009, 20:52:53 »
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Men really do confuse me, Sky.  I try and figure out what they could be thinking, but who really knows?

Infact, that's probably true of women too.  I've always been very open with my feelings, but no everyone is.  I hate that.  I like to know where I stand.



you know Silly, when you meet the right one you'll wonder why you had so many questions....

but don't forget...the right one won't be perfect....he'll be human with flaws and shortcomings AND you'll still have to work to become 1

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« Reply #22 on: 27 November 2009, 21:36:59 »
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"J" and "S" are close on Belgian keyboards?

(Faithless, great muzak btw!)

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« Reply #23 on: 27 November 2009, 21:42:19 »
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hmm...I quite like it when Koen calls me silly.  It suits me.  .........> congrats

 
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« Reply #24 on: 28 November 2009, 11:43:28 »
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hmm...I quite like it when Koen calls me silly.  It suits me.  .........> congrats


you see how easy a man can be?  congrats
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« Reply #25 on: 30 November 2009, 21:29:52 »
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I dont know why it takes men longer to accept an apology than women....I've apologized to my boyfriend for being a pest after I had a few drinks...and still he's upset....I'm not perfect...only human and make mistakes...I'll give him several days then try texting or calling him....sigh.... cry
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« Reply #26 on: 30 November 2009, 21:32:49 »
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I dont know why it takes men longer to accept an apology than women....I've apologized to my boyfriend for being a pest after I had a few drinks...and still he's upset....I'm not perfect...only human and make mistakes...I'll give him several days then try texting or calling him....sigh.... cry


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« Reply #27 on: 30 November 2009, 21:41:41 »
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again....your boy is a man...not all men are like your boy  waa


So what should I do?? Not call him anymore?Huh? try and move on??? sigh...my  heart is so totally broken.......I need a hug...
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« Reply #28 on: 30 November 2009, 21:45:00 »
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again....your boy is a man...not all men are like your boy  waa


So what should I do?? Not call him anymore?Huh? try and move on??? sigh...my  heart is so totally broken.......I need a hug...


NOBODY can tell you what to do....I also have moments that I get upset about the misses and I do want to say something or do something but at the end it would brake my heart to see her hurt by my actions...damn...when you're '2 as 1' you're not alone anymore and you don't care about 'acting', 'showing off', 'being boss' or anything else....you only want harmony and to see your partner smiling and happy  congrats
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« Reply #29 on: 30 November 2009, 22:38:50 »
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NOBODY can tell you what to do....I also have moments that I get upset about the misses and I do want to say something or do something but at the end it would brake my heart to see her hurt by my actions...damn...when you're '2 as 1' you're not alone anymore and you don't care about 'acting', 'showing off', 'being boss' or anything else....you only want harmony and to see your partner smiling and happy  congrats


That's true....I guess life works in mysterious ways most times....sigh...I'll just give it time..see if he calls...if he dosen' then I move along....I have to keep going...
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« Reply #30 on: 30 November 2009, 22:43:08 »
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NOBODY can tell you what to do....I also have moments that I get upset about the misses and I do want to say something or do something but at the end it would brake my heart to see her hurt by my actions...damn...when you're '2 as 1' you're not alone anymore and you don't care about 'acting', 'showing off', 'being boss' or anything else....you only want harmony and to see your partner smiling and happy  congrats


That's true....I guess life works in mysterious ways most times....sigh...I'll just give it time..see if he calls...if he dosen' then I move along....I have to keep going...


advice...limit the things you 'have to do'...try to keep the 'have to' to work....if a relationship becomes a duty or you have to think about it...well...something's wrong then...

not blaming anyone...neither you...neither your boy...
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« Reply #31 on: 30 November 2009, 23:27:20 »
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advice...limit the things you 'have to do'...try to keep the 'have to' to work....if a relationship becomes a duty or you have to think about it...well...something's wrong then...

not blaming anyone...neither you...neither your boy...


I dont feel I have to do anything...everything i do comes from my heart...I'm a ver passionate woman...and I'm sure he knows it..lol...I just feel like I deserve a second chance...I made a mistake ok..i take full responsibility...I guess its really hard for some men to forgive ay??? sigh.
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« Reply #32 on: 1 December 2009, 04:29:30 »
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Sky...is he Latino or Anglo? They respond differently to women in the two cultures.

Good Hunting.

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« Reply #33 on: 1 December 2009, 06:57:06 »
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Sky...is he Latino or Anglo? They respond differently to women in the two cultures.

Good Hunting.

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He's as white as white can be, lol....hes also a commander in the military...dont know if maybe that might influence a bit or not....any how...Its been a couple of days since he got pissed at me...I've decided I'm not going to text or call him...if he thinks otherwise then he can contact me...I've texted him and apologized...I did what I felt I had to do to make things right...and yes my apology was sincere and from my heart...he hasent responded at all..so well just see...sigh...life goes on...
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« Reply #34 on: 1 December 2009, 16:05:53 »
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hes also a commander in the military...dont know if maybe that might influence a bit or not


Since I dont know him, I couldnt say for sure. However, my military background is an integral part of me, inseparable, even so many years after my service. I suspect his is as well. Just remember, you cant push a river.
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« Reply #35 on: 1 December 2009, 18:58:11 »
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Just remember, you cant push a river.


I know...that's why I'm letting go....moving on..I think it's bette that way.......
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« Reply #36 on: 1 December 2009, 19:17:37 »
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I have a feeling you are destined for better things, Sky.
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« Reply #37 on: 1 December 2009, 20:22:17 »
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I have a feeling you are destined for better things, Sky.


Thank you Jilly.....We have stay positive, and know that everything will fall together sooner than later lol .......*hugs*
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« Reply #38 on: 1 December 2009, 23:46:32 »
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Sigh  cry
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« Reply #39 on: 2 December 2009, 01:29:12 »
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Absence makes the heart grow fonder. We alot of times don't know what we had until it's gone as well.

If you're what he wants he'll be back. If the relationship can't survive this then it wouldn't have survived the really tough times that couples can go through.

Good Luck with this either way.

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